Greetings and welcome. A good man is like a good bra::: Hard to find, close to your heart, and supportive. I will never ask you for money. I do not want to be needed. When you need something then you use it up and discard it when you are done.. I want to be wanted. I want to be valued to the point that I have to check in with her and she knows where I am and what I am trying to do. I have lived on my own most of my life. So I cook, clean, and make the money. I believe that a bathroom is not complete unless the toilet seat is down. I am clean and I clean my surroundings and maintain its appearance. I have a house and a rig and a steady income that allows me to go anywhere. I see my/mine security as my responsibility.