We're ENM and looking for others who understand the value in friends first. Both of us are exploring sex with others and we're open minded, but that doesn't mean we're easy or dumb. We're very private and she's still a bit new to ENM, so we're likely to be very frustrating to those that are looking for quick hookups.

My Ideal Person We're attracted to intelligence and people who can hold a conversation about more than sex. Our ideal person/persons would be, in a nutshell, someone we find interesting with a fair amount of chemistry. If all you've got is your dick to share, don't bother, we're not interested in yet another toy, we have more than enough of those already.