The reason I'm here is I'm married to a woman that is on meds that makes her not want or desire sex. She is in a very good place with how her meds are working and I do not want to change that. The sacrifice for me is no to very little sex, its worth it. I'm a hard working guy that tries to stay fit, I social drink once in awhile so I don't over indulge, and no beer gut. With my wife I require a discreet relationship as we don't want to hurt anyone's home life. Personally I'm just trying to find someone that needs to have a stress relief moment to give us a break from our everyday Life